it is the eve before Father’s Day.  until recent, i wasn’t concerned with celebrating fatherhood.  I wasn’t concerned with celebrating manhood in general.  but i see now; we deserve to be celebrated — to be lauded.  it is good to be recognized for who we are.  this weekend i have been feeling good about being a man, being a father.  i still don’t always know what that means.  but thats the beauty of life.  we are always learning and discovering as we stumble through blockades and trip over obstacles.  the process of becoming a father is continuous.  ever evolving.  changing.  and its good.